Thomas999;n7390960 said:
You guys are such bleeding hearts
Geralt isn't actually responsible for Yennefer's happiness, he's responsible for his own.
Geralt was not once in his life happy until he met her (and Ciri). He cursed his life as witcher, his whole life for half a century and beyond.
The Lady of the Lake
Geralt, staring out the window, smiled at his own thoughts and dreams.
...
'Not at all. this job holds no interest to me. I will go into retirement.'
'Is that right!'
'I'm serious. no more being a witcher.'
There was a long silence, broken occasionally by the furious meows of the kittens as they scratched at each other in a game.
'No more being a witcher,' Yarpen Zigrin repeated. 'Ha! I don't know what to think about that, as old King Dezmod said when caught cheating at cards. But i have a very bad feeling. Dandelion, you have travelled with him and spent a lot of time at his side. Has he shown other symptoms of paranoia?'
...
'Quickly,' Yarpen said. 'Pour vodka into him, Dandelion, because he is talking like an old Schrader when he fell into the mine shaft on his head. Geralt, I know you've a deep temperament and a sensitive soul, but do not talk such crap, as you can see, Yennefer is not here, just us old wolves. Don't tell us old wolves stories of a witcher not needing a sword, the world is not like that. You are a witcher and you will need …'
'No, I won't,' Geralt gently denied. 'Perhaps this will surprise you old wolves, but I have come to the conclusion that it is foolish to piss in the wind. That it is foolish to stick my neck out for anyone. Even if that someone pays. An no, this is not an existential philosophy. Believe it, but suddenly, I have taken a tremendous affection for my own skin. I have come to the conclusion that it would be stupid to risk it in defence of others.'
'I noticed,' Dandelion nodded. 'On one hand, it is smart. On the other …'
'There is no other.'
'Yennefer and Ciri,' Yarpen asked after a little while, 'have something to do with your decision?'
'Much.'
The reason why he is still going on is Yennefer and Ciri. That's the only reason why he is still living.
Thomas999;n7390960 said:
The two of them have been miserable "together" for so long, what's to say she won't ultimately also be better off with all that behind her? "We have such a long history it'd be a waste not to keep going, and I don't want to make her sad by breaking up" by themselves aren't very good reasons to continue a dysfunctional relationship. That's just throwing good years after bad ones and refusing to face your problems. Tear off the band-aid, suck the venom out, apply the painful-as-**** disinfectant and let the damn wound heal already, that's what I say.
What miserable years? You mean the ones, when Geralt was nothing than fuzzing about how Yennefer did this or that? When people even started to tell him to stop talking about her? People around him begun to be annoyed by the amount of time he spent talking and thinking about Yennefer. That's what people do, when they can't stop thinking about someone for obvious reasons.
Hell, Geralt even started to call the woman he is having sex right now Yennefer ffs!
The Lady of the Lake
Fringilla was silent for a moment. She had not the slightest intention of telling the lodge that during the last two weeks the witcher had called her Yennefer twice – and at times, when she had every right to be called by her own name. However the lodge had a right to expect from her the truth. Sincerity. And some useful findings.
and by the amount of how much the other sorceresses know about Geralt, I might suspect Yennefer did the same with their friends.
Whenever they were together, they were happy. The whole world around them could have ended, it wouldn't have mattered for them then.
The only reason why their relationship didn't work was the reason a lot of relationships won't work even in real-life, they didn't really talk to each other and if they did, neither of them made compromises.
Geralt should have talked about that he wants free space from time to time instead of just leaving her behind. She told him that he will get used to it, the real reason was that she didn't want to risk his life all the time. She didn't want to lose him for mere orens, that's why he should do rather cheap jobs. She got enough money for 10 lifes anyway, why let him risk his all the time? This is even a topic in the new comic Curse of the Crows by Dark Horse Comic.
Geralt should have admit his feelings towards her like she already did. She opened her heart towards him and he did nothing.
Sword of Destiry
‘Yennefer…’
‘Be quiet! I gave you more than I’ve ever given any other man, you scoundrel. I don’t know, myself, why I gave it to you. And you… Oh, no, my dear. I’m not a slut or an elf-woman met by chance in the forest, who can be discarded in the morning, walked out on without being woken, with a posy of violets left on the table. Who can be made a mockery of. Beware! Utter a single word and you will regret it!’
She gave him
everything, even things she thought she wasn't capable of, and he just couldn't handle it, because he didn't know how. It was overwhelming and instead of welcoming and replying to it, he ran away.
There is a whole chapter about whether he is even capable of loving someone, he doesn't want to admit that he still has feelings.
Sword of Destiny
‘I might have. But you would have taken it as… the Devil only knows what. And I am an unfeeling witcher and heartless professional. I risk my life. Not other people’s.’
At this point he still didn't know whether he is capable of doing what she already did.
and yet no matter what, he could never did to other women what he did to Yennefer:
Sword of Destiny
A little sacrifice, he thought, just a little sacrifice. For this will calm her, a hug, a kiss, calm caresses. She doesn’t want anything more. And even if she did, what of it? For a little sacrifice, a very little sacrifice, is beautiful and worth… Were she to want more… It would calm her. A quiet, calm, gentle act of love. And I… Why, it doesn’t matter, because Essi smells of verbena, not lilac and gooseberry, doesn’t have cool, electrifying skin. Essi’s hair is not a black tornado of gleaming curls, Essi’s eyes are gorgeous, soft, warm and cornflower blue; they don’t blaze with a cold, unemotional, deep violet. Essi will fall asleep afterwards, turn her head away, open her mouth slightly, Essi will not smile in triumph. For Essi…
Essi is not Yennefer.
And that is why I cannot. I cannot find that little sacrifice inside myself.
Because she is not Yennefer, he can't do it.
When he finally accepted his feelings, he finally realized what he had found in her. Not just a lover, but also himself, a human being with feelings just like Yennefer had. She just realized it sooner than him, that she isn't the monster she always believed, Geralt just needed more time to that.
Time of Contempt
‘These crabs,’ she interrupted, ‘were still creeping along the seabed this morning. Teleportation is a wonderful invention.’
‘Indeed,’ he concurred. ‘It ought to be made more widely available, don’t you think?’
‘We’re working on it. Come on, give me some. I’m hungry.’
‘I love you, Yen.’
‘I said drop the ostentation . . .’ she broke off, tossed her head, drew some black curls away from her cheek and opened her violet eyes wide. ‘Geralt! It’s the first time you’ve ever said that!’
‘It can’t be. You’re making fun of me.’
‘No, no I’m not. You used only to think it, but today you said it.’
‘Is there such a difference?’
‘A huge one.’
‘Yen . . .’
‘Don’t talk with your mouth full. I love you too. Haven’t I ever told you? Heavens, you’ll choke! Lift your arms up and I’ll thump you in the back. Take some deep breaths.’
‘Yen . . .’
‘Keep breathing, it’ll soon pass.’
‘Yen!’
‘Yes. I’m repaying sincerity with sincerity.’
‘Are you feeling all right?’
‘I was waiting,’ she said, squeezing lemon on the salmon. ‘It wouldn’t have been proper to react to a declaration made as a thought. I was waiting for the words. I was able to reply, so I replied. I feel wonderful.’
Geralt is Geralt because of her and vice versa. Sapkowski used and wrote her to help Geralt accept his human being and so did Yennefer.
Thomas999;n7390960 said:
Besides, she still has a century or two left in her. She'd have to move on eventually. By finally ending them, at least Geralt will have a few decades of not being chained in a passionate love-hate relationship with a woman who, frankly, he sucks at getting along with while the bards sing tragic ballads about his personal life. Yennefer pouting a bit and moping about for a little while isn't going to be the end of the world.
Technically she can live forever and no, I don't think she will ever love someone again like Geralt the same goes for Geralt. Both had lovers in the past, but both never felt anything for them until they have met.