When i made my original post, i forgot to present the other side of the coin (it was already a huge wall of text, sorry):
I was text chatting a friend, and we started playing a game: i would just say him the name of my opponent and what i was about to do in the match, and we would bet if the opponent would forfeit or not, and how long it would take to forfeit.
And i can get impatient too, and i know its frustrating: on the last match of the night i wanted to wrap it up quickly, but the opponent was taking ages to play. He could be roping, in which case i would forfeit, i aint got time for that at 4AM, but at the same time, HC was released barely over a week ago, plenty of players are still learning all these changes, so i kept going.