Well I agree with you in the sense that violence should (and is) way worse than a bit of nudity, but I think witcher 3 has just the right amount of both. Im not playing video-games to see long sex-scenes. Im there for the story and and the gameplay.
I wasn't complaining about the lenght but the reused animations, the immersion breaking (and stupid) underwear and the weird camera angles, which let them look censored in a game, which is cleary targeted at adults. Imo they just look out of place and artificially censored.
Even if they were longer it wouldn't take away from the story considering they are a) optional b) minor anyway in a 100+ hours game.
Sex scenes are just like anything else part of the game and therefore they should be criticized if they lack quality and the resued animations and same body models for every woman except for Yennefer are certainly a sign of the lack of quality.
You might be fine with the, but the existence of this thread and several others show that a lot of people are not. From my observation especially the people who played Witcher 2 , which was superior in this regard, are not happy with them in Witcher 3.