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[Mataresa]

Well I am just years older than you, but even with 21 it was already that way. I had women climax multiple times as well, but not seventeen times. ^^ My experience is, that they enjoy being handled and caressed, etc by me and let me have the initiative. From what I have been told (well women often like to lie about that, but I believe most of them in this case), they really enjoy what I do with them and get lost in it. With other men, they might take more initiative and do or say what they want, but apparently I can give it to them instinctively so they just let it happen. Sure I get a lot of enjoyment out of making her feel good, but sometimes I feel, she doesn't care, what I want or need and it becomes too onesided.

Don't want to sound too sex god like though. Definitely not, just very attentive and sensitive to emotions of my opposite. (Also spans other areas. Plenty of women have told me their inner most secrets and worries, noone else in some cases not even their boyfriends know. Which has caused problems on several occasions.) Just need to learn to push more for my own needs.

 

[Unkindled]

I don't think any normal woman has ever climaxed 17 times at once. With me, it's naptime for the both of us usually after just one.

I'll be honest, the most I've made a girl reach the tops was three, which isn't the norm, and it was someone I was really into, and it also wasn't with penetration. I'm not embarrassed to admit that. I always either take care of them first, or finish them off after I'm done. I think that's pretty normal, personally, as supposedly, most women can't reach climax with penetration alone. So to me, it sounds like you're doing things right. Part of why I don't sleep around. I wouldn't feel comfortable doing things that way with someone I don't like or know well. Not to mention it's unsanitary.

edit: What you're saying makes sense though. You put a lot of yourself into being with someone, and you feel like they don't put as much into it. I've had that problem before in general with someone, and it's a sucky feeling. You think the world of someone, and they're just not that into you. In that situation, I just had to break it off, because I couldn't enjoy myself when I was always wondering if she was falling out of love with me, or if she was never in love with me in the first place.

 

[Mataresa]

Everything before the "edit" sounds exactly like me. Besides, that I could have sex outside the relationship, but I still need to know her and know that she cares for me, even if it is just as a friend.

But you are right, that feeling sucks.

Btw, what is your guys stance on complements for men? Had a discussion about that a couple of days ago. Thing is, I get compliments for being nice, kind, smart and so on. But sometimes I would prefer to get a superficial compliment, like being handsome or hot or whatever, even if it is just, that I have nice hair or beautiful hands. ^^ But then the girl I was arguing with said, that men don't need that. Those kind of compliments are only for women. It is not that I am insecure about myself or anything. I just think, sometimes it is bad, when I am reduced to my character.

 

[Garrison72]

Ejakulation is not everything...

You have just destroyed my purpose in life. I hope you're happy.

 

[Mataresa]

@slimgrin I don't want to know how your home looks like. XD

 

[Alan989]

@Mataresa
I shudder to think what his room looks like! :lol:

 

[Garrison72]

@Mataresa
I shudder to think what his room looks like! :lol:

-ok, not really. I'm not as cool as Warf.

 

[Mataresa]

That is women though and not ejaculation. I can far more understand that. ^^

 

[Unkindled]

Everything before the "edit" sounds exactly like me. Besides, that I could have sex outside the relationship, but I still need to know her and know that she cares for me, even if it is just as a friend.

But you are right, that feeling sucks.

Btw, what is your guys stance on complements for men? Had a discussion about that a couple of days ago. Thing is, I get compliments for being nice, kind, smart and so on. But sometimes I would prefer to get a superficial compliment, like being handsome or hot or whatever, even if it is just, that I have nice hair or beautiful hands. ^^ But then the girl I was arguing with said, that men don't need that. Those kind of compliments are only for women. It is not that I am insecure about myself or anything. I just think, sometimes it is bad, when I am reduced to my character.

Na I think that's bullshit, men like compliments too. Some need them more than others. The one I get usually is that I have pretty eyes. They're green/hazel. I like compliments, but I'm not very good at taking them. It embarrasses me, lol. So I don't mind not getting them. I personally don't really think about it honestly, but I don't see anything wrong with liking to hear compliments. Only thing I can think of where it'd be a problem is if it noticeably bothers you that you don't, since then people could sense that and think it's insecurity.

 

[Alan989]

Right lads, I'll be off shooting tomorrow! Here's my stuff!

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I've got 50 rounds of 20G and I hope I get to fire them off!

 

[Unkindled]

Kudos for shotty @AL890 Shotguns are my personal favorite. What is that, a Winchester SX3?

 

[Mataresa]

Are you going to a firing range, military, hunting or something else? I must say, never touched a waepon, never seen one up close besides in movies. Have a lot of respect for them. Though if I could choose, I would prefer doing archery again.

 

[Alan989]

Kudos for shotty @AL890 Shotguns are my personal favorite. What is that, a Winchester SX3?

Nope, Mossberg 500C. Winchesters are rare over here.



@Mataresa
Just hunting, it's one of the most common pastimes among many people, along with fishing, which I don't do. By the way there's pictures of the last time I went out in The Hairy Bear.

 

[Unkindled]

Nope, Mossberg 500C. Winchesters are rare over here.

Oh I just saw your location was ireland :lol: My mistake. I've got an old Mossberg 12 gauge myself for hunting. Complete with the American Redneck woods camo finish. Hasn't seen use in a year in a half though.

 

[Unkindled]

Are you going to a firing range, military, hunting or something else? I must say, never touched a waepon, never seen one up close besides in movies. Have a lot of respect for them. Though if I could choose, I would prefer doing archery again.

Gods, I gave a crack at that once with my great grandfather's set. I sucked horribly. This was a long time ago though and I was only maybe 9 or 10. I lost all his arrows in the woods...

 

[Foxtrot1994]

Wow @AL890 that's one hell of a shotgun eh? Now I feel inadequate, I never used a firearm whatsoever (the pistols at the luna parks don't count, right?), only blades... I wish I could post a picture of my katana, but it's in my house (I'm far from home, cause I'm at university)...

 

[Mataresa]

Hm, I went fishing a couple of times. I imagine it being more relaxing, though maybe not as exiting. Do you have anough wildlife in Ireland to shoot animals, if it is such a common hobby? Though if this is a shotgun as I understood, you can't eat it afterwards because of all the fragments, or not?

Never shot in the woods sadly, only in a sportshall or on the field. And it was just target practice. Liked cloud shooting most. Seeing my arrow fly high up in the air and landing several hundret meters away close to the target. (Used to imagine it being like in the movies, when the archers darken the sky with arrows. ^^)

 

[Unkindled]

Hm, I went fishing a couple of times. I imagine it being more relaxing, though maybe not as exiting. Do you have anough wildlife in Ireland to shoot animals, if it is such a common hobby? Though if this is a shotgun as I understood, you can't eat it afterwards because of all the fragments, or not?

Never shot in the woods sadly, only in a sportshall or on the field. And it was just target practice. Liked cloud shooting most. Seeing my arrow fly high up in the air and landing several hundret meters away close to the target. (Used to imagine it being like in the movies, when the archers darken the sky with arrows. ^^)

There's buckshot rounds you could use instead. I'd only use a normal shot for birds.

edit: There's also slugs if you don't want as many pellets in the deer, but buckshots work better imo.

 

[Cs__sz__r]

You have just destroyed my purpose in life. I hope you're happy.

@slimgrin I don't want to know how your home looks like. XD

@Mataresa
I shudder to think what his room looks like! :lol:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pv1aJnCVUI8

Edit: If you have a roommate.

 

[Foxtrot1994]

ç.ç I feel left alone here, with everybody talking about firearms and hunting, which I don't know anything about. Is there anyone here who fights? I mean, good old kicks and fists?