I feel you, but did you mix up threads by any chance?
Posts addressing the 'do-not-want' towards auto-refilling would make more sense
over here.
Aye, you are correct of course, but I merely reacted to the quotes of OP's link.
EDIT: On topic though, given that respec means rebuilding your character skill choices from scratch is...what, making alterations to previous choices? So like cheating then?

No, don't get me wrong, it's nice for those who want it, but I like @
EmperorZorn's idea of a rose of remembrance. It would create more immersion.
Either that or just bring back this guy:
Or don't, given that he was a pain to fight in that cramped space with those exploding gargoyles. Needless to say, when respec opportunity arrived in Witcher 2, I never hesitated to decline it. Even having missed to spend points getting more Vigor, and finishing the game with two Vigor points(not recommended) respec just doesn't interest me. But once again, it's great for those who do want it.