While I appreciate full-blown sex scenes, I didn't appreciate how the game casually put that douchebag in V's bed, I hope that the game explicitly informs and lets us select who we want V to bang with or not.
I agree completely, I hate it when games do that whole "waking up with someone" trope. For a role-playing game to shove something like that down your throat feels wrong to me because it instantly kills my immersion. But at the same time if you were role-playing that kind of character then it would fit perfectly.
I think sexual interaction should be as much as players want it to be, to allow for a bit more individuality in playstyle and interests. No random hookups unless you pay for it and convince someone in dialogue. True romantic relationships should have buildup and a clear line when you cross over to the next level with whoever it is (regardless of gender). Basically, no unwanted sex scenes involving the PC, and a mature way to have them if you want them just like in the witcher games.
As for my vote:
Togglable 1st/3rd person camera, no minigame but maybe dialogue navigation, full XXX with fade to black as an option.
This is a customisable game, in a world about customization, and they constantly say it's an RPG and you can roleplay who you want to be... So why not let people choose what they want?
1st/3rd person animations would be the same just move the camera rig, fade to black is possibly the easiest thing to have as an option, and for how raw and visceral of a setting this is I would not be surprised if they had full interactive porn at this point.
I don't want Cyberpunk to be a game about sex, but it fits the universe so I say go for it.