Hi all! New face here. Glad to see so much lively discussion for our favourite redhead!
First off, a primer. I've played the Witcher games and they were my intro to the world. The books came later, so Triss has always been at the forefront in terms of 'the sorceress in Geralt's life.' Thus my views are a bit biased, but I also feel like there are some questionable writing choices in terms of the romance as a whole in Witcher 3. I'll get into what I mean.
First off, it feel like all the interactions of the first game are forgotten. Not hidden or Easter eggs, but tossed out the airlock entirely. Triss was (or could be) Geralt's lover in the first game, and the relationship was, as has been mentioned by others, reflective of him as a character. Through the women in his life, we learned about him, and that's a good, functional purpose of the romances. Thing is, in the first game, there was more to the romances than in the second and third games combined. There was intimacy in the first game, and more sex. But there were also gifts, a ring, letters, and a discussion with the guys on 'how am I supposed to understand this woman in my life?' All in all, I credit the first game as having the most in-depth and well-rounded romance of most games I've played because it deals with the politics and work aspect, raising a child, and working things out romantically while keeping the adventure going forward. The game even had a final declaration of love and a promise to work out a new life together when all the dust settled. To CDPR, great work in all of those respects.
Thing is, none of those things seemed to matter from Witcher 2 on. If you romanced Shani, for example, you ended up with Triss because of a three-line lore explanation. Not a very sharp way of doing it, but it does show how great Triss is that she'll still take you back. I think it also says less flattering things about her in that regard, but the point is that she was the default girl in Witcher 2. But after all the stuff in Witcher 1, 2 felt like a serious step back. Comfortable relationship, not a lot of interaction in Flotsam, and Triss feels reduced to a plot device. Where was that letter and ring that she got in 1? It was a special type of ring, after all, and not just any one would do, but as to where it went, no idea. Did they build on what was already there? Sort of, but not in any definitive way. A lot of similar questions (wanting to be free of the politics and have their own life) and similar outcomes (talk of having a life after the adventure is over), so it felt like spinning wheels rather than making progress. The game seemed to work around Triss instead of work with her, and that was something that was hard to ignore in 2. But that's okay, because 2 was still a good game and 3 came out and I was stoked for it.
And then... yeah... 3 happened. Awesome game, not gonna lie. Top-notch work, and the voice acting was great. But Triss became like the jilted lover I would have expected to see in the first game, then warms up to her insecure feelings, tries to dismiss a kiss as nothing, blames the wine, comaes back after trying to leave, etc etc. And I found myself asking 'What... what is going on? Why is this happening?' Others have commented that the romance felt tacked-on, and I very much agree, to the point that I'd say that the romance has forgotten its own history. Triss and Geralt are, or certainly should be, past the point of being insecure about their feelings, past the point of hedging around talking about the future, and for all the crap they have gone through together, there should at least be some awesome stories and 'remember when?' moments. they've had those talks, gotten the answers, and could have moved forward from there. Instead it feels like we're starting from scratch with no bearing from the previous games, and while I will say that there are some sweet moments in 3, that's all they are: moments in time instead of quests or arcs building on what should already be there. Ciri and Triss as almost-sisters was a sweet opportunity to see them both in a dynamic we haven't seen before, so do we get more of that? Nope, just a scene and move forward. Triss and Yen as old acquaintances? Maybe ask how things have been since they haven't seen each other in a while? Doesn't seem like it. Even the sex scene between Triss and Geralt reminded me, almost point for point, of the sex scene with the village girl in Outer Vizima at the beginning of the first game. Sex results in noises that scare the locals and leave them wondering what's going on. In 3, sex results in the lighthouse changing the signals, leaving the incoming sailors to wonder what's going on. Or the bath sex scene in 2. Sex happens, people is confuzzled, it's funny. Not a criticism, but again, not a lot of the original creativity that brought us some great experiences before.
Part of this is a common approach to writing, that when you want to make a new character likable late in the story, you make them relatable and given them a lot of deep content quickly that other characters, who have been around for a while, already have. It's happened in other games, and it's not a criticism against CDPR, but this time it feels like it came at the cost of more unique and in-depth moments with Triss and the other friends who were so central in the first game. Again, what about that ring? The Rose from 2 was there, but that's about it, and it feels like we were retreading a lot of old ground with 3 what we have been over already in 1 than we are learning new things about Triss and her life and how she and Geralt work together. Great chance for some new material, and learning about these people, but it doesn't happen. And someone else mentioned that through the people in Geralt's life, we learn more about him and what he wants, that as the last chapter in his story, this should be about where he sees himself and how his world view has changed. It's a lost opportunity, then, when he's pretty much the same, doing the same sorts of things with the same sorts of people, and the deep dialogues involving topics like morality and where Geralt feels his place in the world is, well, those just aren't there, and that would have been a great note to end on since it would have tied things full circle with the first game.
Those are my thoughts and observations, and I feel like it's a case where an otherwise awesome game falls short. Someone else mentioned that the romances should have lasted longer and the big decision moved back in the story, and I very much agree. Let us see the respective women in action, let's see them in different situations, maybe see their world views clash or works together, then they can interact with the world around them, with Ciri and Geralt, and really let us think of who we want to go with.
Thoughts?