Hey Tangsta. I'll try to put my thoughts below. I've read the books once so there may be things I'm missing and all of what I'm listing is my view on it. The main problem with the Geralt/Yen relationship is that it slowly develops over the course of 20 years. There's really no one major moment where they fall for each other or have some epiphany. Instead, it's a slow crawl from fascination, to a deep mutual respect, to regrets and longing, to the eventual deep connection they share. It's a product of small gestures, reactions and brief moments of emotional honesty rather than a few big moments. Neither Geralt nor Yen are particularly open about their emotions and hide them which also contributes to their slow-burn relationship. But as they grow to know each other, they can see through the facade and it starts getting more serious.Could you provide an example of this, please? I don't mind spoilers in this instance. I would love to have any reason to like her.
They are fire and ice but both enjoy the turbulence and sparks that fly. Both are proud and stick to their own opinions, being quintessential free agents through and through. That does cause both to split up with one another. Yet even when apart they long for each other and have feelings of regret.
The problem is nailing down exactly what it is about them that causes that fascination. There's never a heart-to-heart where they lay all their cards out on the table. It's a relationship of unspoken "knowing" of the other and the emotional pains they have.
So what about Yen is "redeeming"? It's not really any one thing and, as you can tell from above, it's very difficult summarizing their connection succinctly. For me, it's the small gestures of affection they give each other. I could give you some examples, if that's not enough. Or perhaps someone better versed with the material can give you a better/shorter answer than I.
My view is that she provides Geralt with a relationship that, from the outside, may seem almost antagonistic or abusive on the surface, but it operates on a deep level of mutual respect. Neither one really wants to be treated with kid gloves. I suspect Geralt likes the challenge and the fact that she keeps him on his toes. Pretty much every other conquest of his is really just about a sexual connection. He only ever loves Yen, no matter the relationship he is in, to the chagrin of his lover.
After Ciri enters the picture, things solidify between them and they develop into a more solid family dynamic rather than the fickle on-off passion they have for each other.


