Don't worry, I'm not against your opinion, I just feel differently and provided my thoughts on the matter.
Yeah, I understand what you mean, with Triss I was mostly annoyed/confused at the inability to continue the romance straight-away, but it gave us a great story arc to make up for it even if the reasons behind the break up are out of our hands regardless of TW2 decisions. With Yen, I just ignored the flirtatious options and missed out on the Unicorn scene in my playthough and felt so shitty after rejecting her in the Last Wish quest.