I also think the judgement is unfair, but honestly: It is just a forum. And since the invention of our glorious internet, a forum is just a mirror of the unhappy people. Happy people nearly never write in forums.
Personally, I think that Cyberpunk is an issue on consoles. On my PC it runs great so far and iot is just awesome. (i9 with a 2080 Ti).
So I can fully understand the anger from the console angle and Sonys reaction speaks lot.
Further, most complains are about features. Here CDPR made the mistake, to show things in videos, that are now not in-game. Honestly, this is just lying and yes, this evokes bashing. And this is correct.
But nevertheless, what people must learn:
Big companies have departments for
1.) Creating the product: They know the features
2.) Advertising the product, the marketing: They don't know the features, never, in no company ... but they promote them.
And in most cases, they don't speak to each other adequately. There are connections and these connection allow reduced information flow. And the result is, that Marketing Output never ever meets reality. Never, for no product of no company.
And yes, clothing ... I also would like to have some of the clothing of street NPCs. And yes, also Geralt looked like a clown 90% of his game ... and yes, this this is my pain point and was pain point then.
And sure, there are bugs. And I am grateful, that I haven't see a major one so far. But so far, these are small things, and if you programmed something in your life, you know that such a big program can never, and I mean never, be without bugs.
But some of the demanded features are just so incredible ridiculous:
SEX - Braindance (and the strange stuff) - I mean, wtf, this is not a sex game
Nudity ... omg, why ... just why is this important at all. Again, not a sex game.
Crime - Braindance ... most of this stuff is snuff etc. ... I don't wanna see this. The stories are adult content enough. (in my eyes)
I like the full streets, this is just amazing. I love the flair, I love how I look (when I put style over substance, and yes, I have two sets of clothing -.- ), I love how NPCs behave in quests and dialogues.
And after 40 hours I am 10% story and still in the Heist and I have a great time in this game.
In a nutshell:
God damn fix this thing on consoles and give us clothes. I guess 50% of all issues are gone afterwards.
Regards