Oh I am not really sure if you understood, but I was merely joking.
I understand that accusations of nitpicking bother you more that others. I could not agree more with what you've just explained. Well, to be honest, mostly. I do not mind posts that "accuse" people of nitpicking. Well not as much as you do. They simply show some people's need to point out, that we should give the developers a break.
Now this doesn't mean that the developers can't handle all that criticism, or that it is not helpful. It is. And they can handle it, and decide what is helpful to them and what is not. It's just that people sometimes focus on the negatives, and completely forget about the positives. Sometimes, the developer needs to hear that yes, he did a great job overall, but as expected, not perfect. In my opinion, that is what the "nitpicking accusation" posts are trying to say. Mostly.
Anyway, I was simply joking around looking for a reaction. Hope you got that.
What we were talking about though, is this community's will to dissect the system as you say. We pay attention to every detail. And we were wondering if other communities are like that as well. Apparently, my impression is that they are not. What I think is that, when you look into communities based around smaller franchises, thus smaller communities, you are more likely to see that "feedback machine". The Witcher Forum has been like that so far. If you take a look at bigger communities, say like CA, this is somehow lost. There are simply too many people. Rules start being fuzzy. This also might be attributed to the average age of the forum users.
That being said, I do admit that I do not have much experience of other gaming communities. It's just my impression that I'm putting forward.