Ha! Vitality and Vigor are Hit points and Mana! Those are stats...well then so is my 10 or whatever health in Thief. And Health and Endurance in many, many shooters. By stats, I mean values that mimic our human ones. Strength, Dex, Intelligence, so forth. The things that produce the Vigor, Vitality and Damage. Really, Call of Duty has Vitality, then. Which you can increase. Also running Endurance, iirc. You know, Vigor.
Like I said, I still have no idea of Geralt's stats. I don't know how strong or fast or smart or charismatic he is in any statistical way. How does his intelligence compare to Triss ( he's dumber, but we know that from in-game, not stats). Is he more charismatic than Dandelion? (No..c'mon. Dandelion).
I don't think any of your guys' definitions are "wrong", I just think they are too wide.
Here's the thing: my definitions of RPG are exclusive, not inclusive. I want to narrow it down so I'll know what I'm going to be playing. Diablo 1 and 3 were fun, but did not sate my RPG itch. I want, as some annoying forum guy here said, to be forced to pick a dialogue option that is close to what my character would say. In a perfect world, it would -be- what my character would say.
I want my character to make choices I would never do, then pay the price or reap the consequence. Then do it again. I want to choose to nail Iorveth..or let him go. I want to be amourous with Triss...or not, because my Witcher was drawing away from her, distracted by how very messy things were getting. I want let the elf fifth columnist live, because my Geralt sympathises with what she does, whereas I myself know better than to let a murderer walk away.
I myself want to let the troll live ( and do everytime) but I feel Geralt would do his job and chop the troll. I go against role-playing everytime and feel bad about it. While feeling good that I let the Troll live and helped him cope with his sad loss.
I want that depth. I want games that encourage me to make those choices and feel that way. I want role-playing games, good ones.
I don't give a damn about inventory.
That's all. THAT'S ALL I WANT.