I did and I dont accept them. You have the option to do what you are asking for, but you refuse to take it.I explain why this wouldn't work in many of my other posts in this thread. Please kindly read them.
You are asking for something un-reasonable, really. You want to romance a gay women (or just not into you) as a man character? I mean the answer is just to bad, that character is a lesbian, go make a woman character. (or someone they are into)