Did you even read other posts in this thread or you're just repeating same things again and again through various threads?
No one trying to 'enlighten' other team, the only thing that's really disturbing - flagrant disregarding of the lore (expressed via mediocre one-liners) in order to reassure players in their choice.
He might be referring to some of my posts. I know some of them could give that impression.I have said before that I don't think the romances should be on equal footing and there's no reason to believe they should. Choosing Triss over Yen should be a big deal, and that should be reflected in the game. Yennefer was more than a very important person to him for a very long time. Someone he went to hell and back for, and "died" with. His true love. To throw that away because of some experiences while he has amnesia, being manipulated by another person. Let's not forget Ciri either, when you go with Triss her parents basically divorced. There should be conflict, there should be some guilt to show the gravity of what you did if you go that route. I'm not saying it should be all bad, but there should be more to it. Make it actually interesting. Something I would actually want to experience in a playthrough. Maybe they overcome that and new love triumphs in the end for a happy ending. That's fine. But there is nothing now to really say there's any difference choosing one or the other, and the leaked dialogue only reinforces that. It's just, do you prefer red hair, or black hair? I would actually prefer the romances to be different and interesting enough that I would want to try both in different playthroughs. Currently, I would never romance Triss, there's not enough there and it's not interesting enough for me to devote a playthrough to it, considering just how long a playthrough actually is.
They say they want choice and consequence in their games, but there is no consequence here, only choice, and both are portrayed to be the same give or take. Perhaps even more in favor of red hair, since Triss is where players are first led to.
I've said things like this in the past and like I said, cant help but think he got that impression probably from something I've said in the TT. But my opinions are my own and I represent no one other than myself. I stand by them as well.