Most cases of rape in the real world .....
Ima stop you right there, because everything you say after that kind of devolves into nonsense...
Most rapes against women are committed by "regular guys".... the date rapists, the molesters of women passed out at parties, the ones who use coercion, or the ones who simply do not take no for an answer. If you are in a room full of guys, about every 5th one is a rapist, or would be if circumstances allowed it.
The idea of the stranger stalking the park waiting for lone young women is as much an overblown fear as the whole "creeepy dudes in white vans are the molesters" thing.
Like molestation, the vast majority of rapes are committed by people the victim knows and trusted on some level, and has to live with on a pretty regular basis. Class or office mates, boy friends, friends of the family, etc...
While the mustache twirling type of boss or cop who uses sex as a weapon does exist, it is a far less common occurrence then the guy all her friends told her was stand up who after a lovely dinner decided that no really means yes, and that anything short of screaming and yelling and fighting back is consent.