Only played 1 playthrough as fem v and went for judy , i thought it was good until you finish her questline it becomes bad fast, i would assume the other romances are the same the lack of engaging content is poor.
Staring all day out of the window must be darn boring, seriously needs a major revamp when they can for immersion.
Hows this some ideas
1- your romance txs say there at bar/diner x meet em there randomly so can meet up for coffee and grab bite eat .
2- maybe be able to call them to help you on quests, even if its locked to 24hrs or something, like ' hey judy i need help please babe' and presto spawns in to help for a bit.
3- characters have phones, why cant there be some simple preset messages we as players can send, once you get the mox shotgun never hear from your partner again, so have some random msgs you can exchange
4 intimacy, not necessarily the full on sex scene but simple hugs and kisses a player can do which might lead to more if you want , if we get that far weve already done it so bit more wont hurt
5 the apartments, ok why can i pop round Judy's but i cant sit on a sofa or kitchen area, cant sleep on the bed or use the shower? Why cant i be in my apartment and msg partner say im.home wana pop round for a bit? So many ways to make it far more immersive and make it feel like theres something good in the world worth fighting for