I agree, they are getting old fast. Some people pick their favourite feature, proclaim that the game will suxx without it and expect to be treated seriously by the devs. Combined with unrealistic expectations, this is the biggest plague of this forum IMO.
*thumbs up*
I'm surprised that there is no "Hybrid" option in the poll. I always had the impression that VATS was well-received by the players and since it was optional, you could stick to the classical real-time if you wanted.
I'd love a "hybrid" - even though, I also have to say VATS doesn't really count towards it because it has really nothing to do with "turnbased". It was a loose nod towards the called shot from the original Fallout, and implemented mostly to glorifiy headshots and gore, and gaining an "overadvantage" for a brief moment. At very least a system like that would need some heavy modifications (preferably not towards slow-mo, though) to work in a satisfactory manner as an option for the normal run'n gun.
I'd say a proper hybrid was a way to toggle between two modes, but that'd likely mean the game would need to be balanced separately for two different ways of doing combat (I wouldn't say no to it, but I guess it would be a hell of an undertaking).
Anyways, there are lots of possibilities to meddle with it.