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[luc0s]

I had a woman trying to score a date with me and I figured her being my age. Turned out she was actually 32 years old. OOPS! Haha.

Same thing happened when I was 18 years old. I tried to score a date with a girl who I figured to be younger than myself, turned out she was 25 years old. We still dated though, but it didn't work out, mainly because of the age difference sadly enough.

 

[KnightofPhoenix]

Women can be quite the rogues.

The best kind.

My first was with a 26 year old and I was err quite young. Ever since, women older than I am got a special place in my heart.

 

[luc0s]

My first was with a 26 year old and I was err quite young.

How young?

 

[KnightofPhoenix]

17, not exactly legal.

 

[Cs__sz__r]

Agreed.

I was 19 and was with a 30 year old.
And just a year later I was with the surprise 45 year old. And man that was amazing, she was great, we got along unfortunately it wouldn't work out as she was one of my bosses.

And just like you knight I look out for cubs and the lioness'.

Christ, that sounded kind of creepy.

 

[Guest 2091327]

17, not exactly legal.

You need to be 18 in Canada? Up here it's 16. Suffice to say, many make their debut before then too.

Totally agree older women can be great, particularly if they take a bit of initiative as well (which at least in my experience, they are more likely to do).

 

[Senteria]

Somewhere the idea sounds interesting but on the other hand, it's not an equal relationship imo. Especially if the woman is old enough to be your mom.

 

[Pandoricai]

16 with 25 - seems weird now I think about it :/ (just to chip in)

 

[KnightofPhoenix]

You need to be 18 in Canada? Up here it's 16. Suffice to say, many make their debut before then too.

Yes you have to be 18. Many make their debut before but generally with other minors, not a major.

 

[wichat]

Oh, guys, reading your posts makes me want to go out and seaching for a young man who brighten up my mood! /> /> />

 

[Senteria]

Oh, guys, reading your posts makes me want to go out and seaching for a young man who brighten up my mood! />/>/> />/>/> />/>/>

Scrap what I wrote above. />

In all seriousness though. When I'll be looking for a girlfriend again, the preferable age range would be somewhere 21-25. I don't want them to be too young. I've experienced dating someone nearly 5 years younger than me, and it does have complications. Too old is also not preferable as I am not as experienced in life as they would be. It'd be two worlds clashing.

I had a not-meant-to-be one night stand with a 14 year old when I was 18. No

 

[volsung]

I once had a shot with a 14 year old when I was 20. I'm glad I didn't take advantage of her, I really don't think young teenagers know what they're doing. And it was kind of awkward, she was a child in my eyes.

 

[Cs__sz__r]

Especially if the woman is old enough to be your mom.

Ew, let's not bring that into it. Although speaking of that two kind of embarrassing(or hilarious depending on one's take) cons to it:

When you're at dinner and you give them the credit card and the server says, "aww it's so nice to take your mother to dinner". >.>

Or when you're in a serious/semi-serious relationship and they want to meet your mother/parents.

Awkward..

 

[Senteria]

Ew, let's not bring that into it. Although speaking of that two kind of embarrassing(or hilarious depending on one's take) cons to it:

When you're at dinner and you give them the credit card and the server says, "aww it's so nice to take your mother to dinner". >.>

Or when you're in a serious/semi-serious relationship and they want to meet your mother/parents.

Awkward..

Ouch, I can already imagine that.

"Hi mom, this is my girlfriend".

Your what?!

"I meant my girlfriend's mother" *cough*

 

[wichat]

Well, that's true many times... and could explain some stupids reactions we have in a first date.

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo_JiKi8ezI&feature=player_detailpage[/media]

 

[Senteria]

Well, that's true many times... and could explain some stupids reactions we have in a first date.

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo_JiKi8ezI&feature=player_detailpage[/media]

That's a beautiful message and nice video.

 

[GuyNwah]

Well, that's true many times... and could explain some stupids reactions we have in a first date.

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo_JiKi8ezI&feature=player_detailpage[/media]

That's sweet. Very positive message.

Luc0s, that's an excellent beard. It's very becoming on you.

 

[luc0s]

17, not exactly legal.

It's legal in my country. When you're 16 years or older you're deemed responsible enough to decide yourself who you want to date or have sex with. So a 17 years old person with a 26 years old person is perfectly fine over here in The Netherlands.

Luc0s, that's an excellent beard. It's very becoming on you.

Thanks you so much! I'm glad to hear that.

 

[luc0s]

I once had a shot with a 14 year old when I was 20. I'm glad I didn't take advantage of her, I really don't think young teenagers know what they're doing. And it was kind of awkward, she was a child in my eyes.

Since we're all talking about extreme age difference with (sexual) partners, I have one, but please folks do not freak out the moment I give you the ages... Okay, here we go:

I "did it" with a 12 years old girl when I was 19 years old myself. It was her first time, but not mine, I already had plenty of experience.

I never openly talked about this because I feel kind of bad about it in retrospect, but she never regretted it. I have to say that she was REALLY mature for her age. When I first met her I thought she was 16-18 years old. Who would have thought she was 12? I guess her rough childhood made her grow up faster than the other girls around her.

Funny enough I saw her again a few months ago. I'm 24 years old now, and she's 18 years old right now. We talked about lots of things, how we are doing now, and what or future plans are. We also talked about the past, and about us. She said it's roughly 6 years later now, and she still doesn't regret a thing. She thinks I've been real nice and real gentle with her, and that's more than she can say about the boys she dated after me.

She turned out to be a very fine woman. Yes, she's just 18, but if you'd see her you would agree that she is a woman now, not a child. She's in a relationship with a nice 23 years old guy now. They're living together in a nice little apartment and she's pregnant of his child. I really wish the both of them the best of luck.


But yeah, even though she says she doesn't regret anything (and I'm really glad to hear that), I still feel a little bad about it. If I could turn back the time 6 years, I really wouldn't gave gotten romantically involved with that girl, as nice and sweet as she might have been. It just... doesn't feel right. I mean, sure, it felt right at the time, but looking back at it... it just doesn't feel right you know.

 

[Senteria]

Since we're all talking about extreme age difference with (sexual) partners, I have one, but please folks do not freak out the moment I give you the ages... Okay, here we go:

I "did it" with a 12 years old girl when I was 19 years old myself. It was her first time, but not mine, I already had plenty of experience.

I never openly talked about this because I feel kind of bad about it in retrospect, but she never regretted it. I have to say that she was REALLY mature for her age. When I first met her I thought she was 16-18 years old. Who would have thought she was 12? I guess her rough childhood made her grow up faster than the other girls around her.

Funny enough I saw her again a few months ago. I'm 24 years old now, and she's 18 years old right now. We talked about lots of things, how we are doing now, and what or future plans are. We also talked about the past, and about us. She said it's 5 years later now, and she still doesn't regret a thing. She thinks I've been real nice and real gentle with her, and that's more than she can say about the boys she dated after me.

She turned out to be a very fine woman. Yes, she's just 18, but if you'd see her you would agree that she is a woman now, not a child. She's in a relationship with a nice 23 years old guy now. They're living together in a nice little apartment and she's pregnant of his child. I really wish the both of them the best of luck.


But yeah, even though she says she doesn't regret anything (and I'm really glad to hear that), I still feel a little bad about it. If I could turn back the time 5 years, I really wouldn't gave gotten romantically involved with that girl, as nice and sweet as she might have been. It just... doesn't feel right. I mean, sure, it felt right at the time, but looking back at it... it just doesn't feel right you know.

Actually I believe if you're 18+ and have sex with someone below 18, if she could accuse you. Even if she is 17 and you're 18. Taking nude pictures of her is actually considered child porn according to the law. There is a difference though between 16/17 and under 16.
Fornication against her will will net you 6 years in prison. Being a bystander, 4 years. Under 16 it's even 8 years.

Yes I just looked it up out of curiousity. 12 and 19 is pretty awful in society's eyes. It's also pretty awful in my books. One may seem mature for someone's age, but still carry the mind of a 12 year old. Here I was thinking 14 and 18 was bad though there was no actual 'sex' involved in my case. Your case is a bit shocking but I'm not freaked out.