Goddamn, Maelcom. I give you 1/4 a SARDpoint. PENIS! PENIS EVERYWHERE.
Genius.
Mature relationships are...hard to write,
@mkdewidar. And easy to botch. Bioware catches a -lot- of flack for their many attempts, many of them clumsy, but at least they try.
You could, and someone probably will or has, write a game just about developing a deep relationship with another human being(s). But. But. It's very very tricky. Especially dependent on the genre and audience and especially dependent on the themes you lay out in the game. And really, REALLY dependent on the depth and believability of NPCs.
Most writers, CDPR included, give you a haze of a serious relationship - you can see the shape, but the details are lacking. Geralt and Triss mean a lot to each other, that's obvious, but you aren't going to be fighting over the dishes or money or having kids in that game. A real, honest-to-god relationship doesn't take twenty lines of dialogue choice or fifty or a hundred - many more than a thousand are what it takes to begin to scope out what real-world significant emotional commitments take.
And that's a lot of work that much of your audience isn't there for. And that's a lot of work that one poorly-rendered NPC or one clumsy sex scene can undo. It's a lot of risk for not a lot of reward.
it also risks trespassing on serious, deep emotions. Not triumph or curiosity or fear or lust, but real, significant emotional attachment to a fictional creature. And that's a can of worms that developers are perhaps wise to shy away from. But, perhaps not.
Edit: You didn't have to remove your hope for a censorship switch. It is another discussion and perhaps you should specify sex-censorship or swearing or both, but it's a legitimate value. Not everyone wants to trip over a sex scene, for various reasons and not everyone wants to hear constant F-Bombs. Also, some of us have kids and sex is much more potent than cartoon-ish violence..but that's another discussion as well.
An interesting argument against sex in a video-game, explicit sex anyway, is that it almost automatically becomes porn. Now, while pornography has it's uses - and it pretty common in the Dark Future of Cyberpunk - it is -not- real sex or loving sex. If you've had those or might like to have those, it's completely possible seeing the pixel-bits of this NPC you've been getting to know would be quite jarring.
I can sympathize with that, absolutely. Why not make explicit language and/or sex an on-off switch in Options?