That's what I'm saying. Writing that was really hard - I felt so bad for Yen. Unlike the main game, however, this one doesn't invalidate your choice of picking Triss. It acknowledges it while still making you feel the consequences of your choice. Think about how powerful and emotional this scene could have been. I would've killed for something like this.
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Still doesn't make it okay. If you didn't do Now or Never before Kaer Morhen then it makes sense that this is her first appearance there. If you did do it though, she should be there. Doesn't seem to far fetched for the game to be able to keep track of all of these variables.
She's clearly more than that though since you can't end up with Keira but you can end up with Triss. The thing with Keira was never more than friends with benefits. She said so herself. Triss is so much more than that. She should be treated like so much more than. She's not just another fling. She's not Geralt's mistress. She's a major character, one of two potential romance interests and I think she should be given the same care and attention as Yennefer. Again, not necessarily as much screen time but everything should be just as meaningful.
I really hope there will be an Enhanced Edition with such conversations... And yeah as u mentioned in ur dialogues you really can feel the consequences