It is rather unfortunate that the "almost unrealistic high standards of asshole console gamers" tend to concentrate mostly on things like ease of use of interfaces (even if it means dumbing down) and/or nothing less than AAA graphics, even when it hurts gameplay and might even close studios.
But for better or worse, in general, console gamers do precisely that, they complement the "almost unrealistic high standards" that PC gamers have sometimes, but regarding different aspects, and combining both, drive the industry forward, one way or another, with extreme points of any of the two sides naturally being detrimental overall.